If you or your partner are healing from sexual betrayal and are finding yourself dreading the upcoming holidays, please take some time to look through the resources below. We hope these resources can better prepare you for this holiday season.


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Words of Encouragement for The Holiday Season

Compiled by Dan Drake, MFT, LPCC, CCPS-S, CSAT-S

Support comes in many forms.  So during a time filled with anxiety, stress, loneliness, and pain, I wanted to share with you the supportive words of other partners about the holiday season.  These brave women come from all different backgrounds, some who are coming into their first holiday season post discover/disclosure, and others who have been on this healing journey for more than 15 years.  They anonymously shared words of encouragement to you, so that you’d have support during the holidays.  Read more…


Holiday Chear Vs Reality for Partners

The Do’s and Dont’s of Holiday Gift Giving after Betrayal (for Addicts)

Alcohol Consumption During the Holidays

Surviving the Holidays


Preparing for the Holidays

Managing This Year’s Traditions

Navigating the Holiday Season with Children

Travel Guidelines for Recovery and Relational Safety

Managing Triggers While Traveling (for partners)

Travel Guidelines (portable recovery program)

Gift Giving Worksheet

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