by Dan Drake, LMFT, LCPP, CCPS-S, CSAT-S I’m often asked about good computer filters, so I thought I’d write a bit here to help you get started with some basic information. For parents, these programs can be very helpful to limit your child’s access to certain sites on the internet. For sex addicts or …read more
by Dan Drake, LMFT, LCPP, CCPS-S, CSAT-S Here is a guided meditation adapted from The Betrayal Bond (Carnes, 1997, pp. 213-215): Close your eyes and make yourself comfortable. Make sure nothing physical distracts you. If you are upset about anything, picture a box around it and set it aside. Tune in now to your …read more
by Dan Drake, LMFT, LCPP, CCPS-S, CSAT-S Here’s another article I wrote for therapists in a local journal: Many of us who work with alcoholics or addicts are familiar with the CAGE screening for alcoholism: C: Have you ever felt you should CUT DOWN on your drinking? A: Have people ANNOYED you by …read more
Here is an article I recently wrote for therapists in a local journal: Sex is everywhere in our culture. From billboards, to iPhones, to gossip with friends, we as a society are becoming sexualized at increasingly younger ages. Most of us are able to navigate these sexualized waters with few problems. However, there is a …read more